I had to make some hard decisions over the last day or 2.  It was time I started thinking about myself and how I want to live life.  I know the decision is going to upset some people and it is going to make that some people have to stand up and sort their life out. 

I have reached a stage where other people negatively affects the way I can live my life because they believe that other people (me) have to look after them. I have no problems helping and assisting when I know that person is in real need and have done whatever they can to help themselves.  But when a person is healthy and nothing wrong with them, and then not working, I just do not think that is right.